when we crave for what we don’t need…..
Dependencies is a state where we crave for something that does not fulfill any of our need.
Intimacy is a need to be fulfilled , but dependency is not.
For example , we all long for “love and friendship” because emotional intimacy is a necessity.
But often in time people get used to being around each other and develop some kind of emotional dependencies.
There were time when I forget how good it feels to have a real meal alone,
even worse , I forget how to have a meal alone.
Sadly , while positive emotional dependency could lead to a successful relationship ,
it also could block people from getting true emotional intimacy.
Even worse , a lot of people are not wise enough to see the differences…
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